just hot is fine for me, i even get mild ones sometimes, like a honey garlic or somekind of tangy this or that. But the real fire hot kind, i just don't enjoy cause they just tear up my insides after i eat them.
Plus i've never understood those places that will have like 5-10 levels of HOT, like 1-4 will be mild, then after that it is just hot, hot-hot, really Hot, hotter than really Hot, and so on and so forth.
To me, if i can't enjoy the taste and texture of the wing and the meat, then it's too damn hot for me.
Now i would still be all good for a little dare amongst friends or some good ole buddies ribbing on each other. Like if we all were to order a plate of the hottest a place had to offer and each eat just one.